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For some, forgiveness is that which comes after repentance. In contrast, Jesus portrayed a radical forgiveness as unconditional and thus as that which is offered before repentance.

Jesus’ understanding of forgiveness was so radical because he did not need people to repent before he would accept them. He did not require a change in their behavior before he loved, respected, and related to them. Yet, it was precisely this unconditional love and forgiveness that seemed so potent and transformative, often being the very act that drew people to repentance.

To the person who says “I have tried so hard to change but can’t,” Jesus’ response seemed to be “It’s OK, I love you and accept you just the way you are.” Paradoxically, it is only when this message is taken to heart that real change can take place.